Monday, April 30, 2012

Battle of the Sexes

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Thursday, April 26, 2012

Real CRAZY love


So, I sorta kinda have gist.

What am I saying, I sorta kinda have gist, I mean to say, "country peepoh, con sidon, con hear, tori tori dey oooo"

Why have I not blogged?

I did something sorta stupid and as a result, my hideout, (here - blogger) has been compromised. This new dude and I were talking and I mentioned my anonymous blog. Don't ask me why I did...I just did!

I didn't tell him what it was, after much probing and searching I gave him a hint. I was almost positive that hint would never work but as you can tell it did.

Since then my freedom to blog has been crippled because I'm clearly going to be spilling stuff to you all about him's my fault, I can't expect y'all to pay for my

So yea, it's been going really good. I’ve been falling “in like” with him more and more as each day goes by.

A few things I wanted to mention to you earlier in the month were that I was sorta worried about two things and didn't know if those were enough to push him away. Earlier on when this all started, I had this weird fear of commitment and I just wanted to remain single. I give him a lotta time, he gives me soo much time and attention, sometimes I'm waiting for the bomb of his faults to drop so I can say, "I knew you were too good to be true”

I could easily type up a book telling you how good he’s been to me. I keep thinking it’s just the honeymoon phase and things would pass. I’ve been so negative lately, it’s actually quite disgusting. When I say negative, there’s this part of me that keeps waiting for the bad thing to happen. I never use to be like that and I don’t buy the idea of past relationships building a permanent heart wreck outta me.

He’s got dreadlocks and he’s a vegetarian. Many girls generally would be like hawtness, I on the other hand saw myself standing on the top of a 100 storey building screaming, “what-da-heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeellllll” after cheesing at him all day, like everything was all good. You mean to tell me I’ve learnt to cook all these different meals, for a guy to come my way and be chopping grass….heehnn…”I nor dey o”. If I was searching for a white man, heck, I know where to find em. (this is all based on the assumption that we have a permanent future together).

I’m at a point in my life where everyone around me is getting married and quite frankly, I’m in no hurry whatsoever, I just want the right guy to find me, when the time is right, but this doesn’t mean that whoever I “talk” to I don’t imagine a future with them, cuz I do. If things can’t work, then I best get to stepping real quick or build a wall, that keeps us focused as friends.

These dreadlocks!…my cousins are sorta still amazed, its sorta “H, if anyone else, not you though”. I’m more of a clean-shaven-man-in-a-fresh-suit-typa-girl, but I would say this, it pays to let a good guy in regardless of what he eats or how he looks. If I saw this guy from a distance, I’d keep him at a distance, but I met his character first and to say the least I’m head over mighty heels for him…

After getting to know him, he’s not only attractive on the inside, I actually think his dreads are very very sexy…*covers face* and he’s taller than me not just by 4 inches but a good 8/9”. I really like that.

In short, what I’m trying to say is, I really like this new guy. A LOT!

We’ve skyped for up to 12 hours before and since then we’ve been going at it every night. Is that creepy? We’d fall asleep for bout 3 – 4 hours then wake up and continue then maybe nap a little longer and then continue till one of us has to leave…DON’T JUDGE US!

In other news, I finally told this other guy that I couldn’t get over that I HAD a crush on him, just so I could close the chapter completely and focus on my new found “LOVE”?

Comment to tell me what you think he said/did


My girlfriend called me last night to tell me that the guy that had been chatting her up (the one she was unsettled about, who recently started singing in the choir) is married to a girl who sponsored his trip to Canada, and the girl that he comes to church with on Sundays is his girlfriend. Imagine that?!

The dreadlocks and vegetarianess are just shallow of me, right? I think so

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