Right after work, I went to a christmas concert at my church. Awesome, Awesome, Awesome...and of course, I was there till late, knowing fully well that I had to be back in church very early the next day.
Sha sha, I got back home after church and remembered I was to MC a baby shower at 4:30pm. At that point all I really wanted to do was engage myself in my Sunday sleep. Am I the only one that feels like there's nothing like Sunday sleep. I mean it just has to be a blessing from God. It's simply magnificent. Once you miss it, you can't get it again till the following Sunday....sheeesh...
Trust me now, I still attempted to sleep, bcuz next Sunday is just a lil too far...but nooo...my fone decided this was the time to ring...so I woke up with a headache and went for the baby shower. I was a little cranky but I was able to tame myself, thank goodness.
To say the least, the shower was a lotta fun.
Now on to the advice part...ghen ghen; ghen ghen...lol
This I have to say was great insight. Mother's walked up to the front individually (other mother's couldn't hear what the "mother on the spot" was saying)...
but for some reason, all the mother's kept saying this one thing in particular:
Your hubby is your number one baby, never forget that. If you pay too much attn to the baby and almost none to him or you don't give him much importance anymore, you're creating a mess for yourself.
Its amazing how true this is...what I may say now may sound really stupid and blonde but I'm still going to go for it...:p...You know how a lotta of us...me included like to call our bfs or soon to be bfs, "baby", I think that stems from the previously stated fact but it's buried in our subconscious that we don't necessarily realize its origin. I never say "baby" out loud but I think of it in my head and I refer to "whomever" as "baby" to the one, the only happy feet...lol
Now this other advice is R rated so if u're a under 18 and reading this...I didn't send you o #disclaimer. For some, I know this is PG 7 sef...lol
Well well, for ease of birth...there's a secret...lol...well it's not a secret per se, but it seemed like one. Have sex very often and frequently esp close to the time you're due to deliver...
Having sex during pregnancy has always been scary for me, what if you go and xxx and then xxx, then what happens...please excuse my ignorance. Sometimes, I'm a lil too paranoid and skeptical
There was more but I'm too tired and lazy to remember, those were the two that have stuck with me.
#kisses my angels...